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Probably a little bit of all of these, but I think denial is also probably a pretty strong factor. They don't see their behavior in the same light that an objective outside observer would see it.

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It's interesting because one's political alignement is more dependent on signaling and traits like sense of humor than actual convictions. If I want to signal that I am "nice" and "tolerant", and I enjoy late night show type humor, then I align liberal, regardless of my convictions. If I want to signal that I'm manly, Christian and maybe I like dark humor, then I'll be conservative.

There is also the fact that people's intellectualizations don't translate to behavior. I can think nice things and support altruistic causes in my head all the while neglecting my duties toward my family, or not taking any step to address my shortcomings. What I think in my head is easy to change, adopt, linger on. Actually examining my behavior and shortcomings is very hard and painful. Doing that AND translating it to actual belief is incredibly difficult for most people.

On a last note, this may be an avenue to explore how sexual abuse is not a feminism issue, but a broader human nature issue.

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