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Doctor Hammer's avatar

I think the question is really one of wildly misusing the "unforgivable" heuristic.

In the heuristic's favor, people usually go out of their way to hide the awful things they do, particularly if it is something that would get them driven from their career or social group. The implication of that tendency to actively conceal is the rule of thumb "if you see one cockroach (sin), there are probably 10 hidden in the walls you can't see." If you catch someone doing something very bad, chances are they did or will do lots of very bad things, and just happened to get caught that time. When you can't monitor people's behavior well, you have to rely on that sort of stochastic "Screw up that badly and get caught once and you are done," strategy.

The misuse comes in when the things considered unforgivable are not awful, are not very bad things. As you say, if we ignore whether or not some particular taboo is in fact pretty common behavior, all we have done is create a sword of Damocles over everyone's head. Sure, everyone who uses the wrong pronouns for someone in some public manner has probably done it hundreds of times. The trouble is that so has everyone, and so it comes down simply to who those in power, whomever has the ear of the mob, decide to cast into the flames that day.

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Magus's avatar

"selling secrets to the Soviets"

youre kidding right? you want to go through a list of people who did just that, authorities KNEW, and nothing f ever happened to them and they died fat and happy? come the f on. Whereas if your second cousin thrice removed once accidentally knew a hate fact about black and white IQ or homicide rates....

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