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Kevin's avatar

Complaining isn’t about an absolute scale. You complain when you observe that something should change to make things better.

If you have a wonderful life and your kid leaves some trash on the floor you shouldn’t say, well that’s fine because we’re a loving family. You should complain and say, pick up your trash.

So here in California yes life is good but I will still complain because some of our policies are obviously making things worse and people should simply adopt my preferred policies.

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Caleb Schneider's avatar

Question to Bryan and to the audience, and apologies if it comes off as nitpicking, I am just genuinely curious.

Is it really possible that so many indicators of how attractive a place is can be boiled down to “if real estate prices are good (exceptional even), there cannot be a good reason to complain?”. For the reverse case, taking the example of South Africa, my impression as a local is that low costs of housing for internationals comes mostly from a mismatch in cost of living (low relative minimum wage in SA), a weak local currency against the dollar/euro, and greatly lower service costs (e.g. for labour) than the USA has. I think many locals would indeed see that price as very high indeed, more like how many Americans would see the prices in LA as very high.

I do generally agree that people should turn off their news more, the tendency towards overwhelming negativity is pretty high, but I do wonder if many Angelenos are also just comfortable where they are and then complain as their base-level of happiness returns once they’ve settled in and initial excitement has worn off.

One aside: As an SA local, people being kidnapped for ransom, especially from their homes, is vanishingly rare from what I’ve seen/heard, especially depending on what area you are in. The crime rate is a lot higher than the US, but a large share falls on the poorer population, and I reckon your friend has a much bigger chance of “minor crime” such as burglary and mugging rather than something like a kidnapping. Just thought it was an interesting aside in an otherwise excellent article, probably just a throwaway line anyway.

All the best!

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